Every little girl makes up a list of qualities that she is looking for in her future guy. Let's call it "the list". If you have been told differently...she is lying. Yes, I am outing us!
Being the pro/con list sort of girl I am, I openly admit to having compiled this list multiple times throughout my life. With each new phase in my life, what I am looking for has changed.
7 Yr Old Me 16 Yr Old Me
1. Cute 1. Hot
2. Doesn't pick his nose 2. Plays guitar
3. Plays sports 3. Really smart
4. Is funny 4. Popular
5. Popular 5. Has a car
Me Now
1. Honest 6. Embraces my quirks 11. Hardworking
2 .Kind 7. Looks past my pain 12. Brings out the best in me
3. Smart 8. Patient 13. Stable and dependable
4. Responsible 9. Loves his mother 14. Makes me smile
5. Sure of himself 10. Man of God 15. Great personality
Me Now looks for a lot more characteristics in a man than younger versions of myself and I am proud to say that she seems to be a lot less shallow too. I think it's weird that girls transition from this "I want to date the cool guy" phase to "I want to date/marry the man that makes me happy" phase. Ultimately that is what it comes down to, right? Who makes you happy? Who makes you giddy and head-over-heals? Who...who...who?
The man a woman ends up with....is not a list. But there is no denying that he probably has some of the characteristics on "the list".
What is on your list?